Inside the mind of the Man: 9 Things Men REALLY Think About Women–According to this guest on Bethenny
I always find it very informative to see a guy perched on a stool, in a room fill of women, telling them exactly what they DON’T want to hear. Spewing the classic male chauvinism with a side of snark. It’s television gold for producers especially during November’s SWEEPS. Get a man who wants publicity and send him out for the slaughter Ancient Roman style– and while this guy proved to regurgitate many stereotypes that are hard to swallow- he also made some interesting points that are at least (I thought) worth sharing.
So here are –9 Things Men REALLY Think About Women–insight into the mind of men– women READ UP!
#1 Do looks really matter: Most women won’t date a guy who is 5′ 6″ unless he is Tom Cruise ; women want a guy over 6 foot one. For women- men become more attractive– when a man walks in a room and he has confidence and swag that is attractive.
#2 The Thing men want: women who are physically fit when it comes to weight– men aren’t going to approach women who are obese unless they have a fetish for it.
# 3 The particles move throughout a relationship– should a man love a woman a little more– both should love more at one point. the man loves more and at one point the woman loves more (Bethany interjected this: a man needs to love a woman more- so that you feel you have them locked in and they won’t stray) Or you have an equal relatonship she loves money and he loves bimbos.
#4 On first date don’t ask questions about his failures– ask about posiutive exciting things– don’t ask why his relationship broke up- ask about his dreams his passions.
#5 A man’s dirty nails are an indication of who they are an if a woman is obese- a man doesn’t want her- because that is an indication of who she is.
#6 More than anything men are attracted to a youthful spirit age is just a number.
#7 Men are simple creatures if you lay it out for them. If you feel awkward asking a guy out- say, there’s a great coffee shop around the corner- we should check it out and if they are interested they will make it happen.
#8 Courtship is dead it is an old school throwback mentality. Chemistry is instant and after that develops then you court and develop the relationship; you have to light the flame then you can temper the flame and turn it up and down.
#9 Your vibe is everything- just go out and have a good time. If women put out there there that they want to get married- men can smell it in the wwater and they will run.
So is this guy TOTALLY off the mark- or does he make some valid points?