You find a receipt for condoms in your car trunk- what is the first thing you do?
I have to admit it my husband is sloppy. He’s not calculating, he doesn’t know how to lie or hide things from me, which is why I rarely feel the need to rifle through his pockets or wallet. Oh yeah and the fact that anytime he scrawls a number of a paper he leaves it in plain site where he knows I will see it. The man just would be no good at carrying on an affair- I’ve established that fact- but still, there’s always the what ifs that plague me– like any wife….
Apparently after being married just shy of a month pro football player Chad Johnson — who recently changed his name from Chad Ochocinco — was arrested Saturday after his wife Evelyn Lozada confronted him about a receipt she found for a box of condoms, police said. According to an arrest affidavit, Lozada said she was taking groceries into their home when she found the receipt in the car trunk. When the two were seated back in the car, they began talking about the receipt and their marriage. That’s when Johnson got upset and head-butted his wife, the report said.
so here’s my question for the sugar daddy… why would a man who is married not even a month need to cheat on his wife?
The Sugar Daddy: He’s crazy– why did he get married if he’s going to act like that. He’s obviously not invested in this marriage.
Me: Do you think his wife had a right to confront him after finding this receipt?
The Sugar Daddy: Of course she has a right to confront him. She’s his wife, she has a right to know everything he’s doing.
Me: So if I found a receipt for a hotel room in the trunk of your car- you wouldn’t head butt me if I confronted you with it?
The Sugar daddy: No I wouldn’t head butt you.
Me: What would you do? Seriously if a wife finds out her husband is cheating– really what should she do? What would a man respond to?
The Sugar daddy: I think any man who is caught cheating– in the first month of his marriage- needs to reevaluate whether he indeed wants to be in the marriage.
Me: What if the roles were reversed, what if you found a receipt for condoms in my wallet?
The Sugar Daddy: I’d be upset clearly. I’d questions whether you wanted to be in our marriage.
Me: The truth is– none of us knows how we will react when faced with finding condoms we know our spouses are not using with us– it is the ultimate betrayal- it breaks you- it breaks the trust. Is there really any good way of having this confrontation?